Understanding How Divorce Affects Children

Robyn Grayless
8 min readOct 27, 2020
Children are unwilling participants in their parents’ divorce—make sure they’re cared for when heading toward divorce.
Couples who only stay together for the sake of their kids can often do more harm than good. The behaviors in your home influence how your children will behave as adults.

A few weeks ago I read a friend’s Facebook post about how her state-mandated “parenting course” taught that divorce will ruin your children.

She said:

“Completed my parenting course — it’s junk. Tells you 700 times pretty much you’re ruining your kid because you’re getting divorced . . . What about leaving toxic, unhealthy relationships because it’s necessary?”

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Robyn Grayless

Wife and mother with a rollercoaster past. Sharing lessons learned to help others find their worth and live their lives to the fullest.