The secrets to a happy marriage—or not

There’s much more to happy marriage than well-meaning but terrible advice. –Photo by Ben White on Unsplash

It seems that everyone has some “wisdom” to help you navigate married life—the secrets to a happy marriage, if you will. While some of this advice is worthy of your attention, much of it can be downright destructive.

While I’m hoping marriage advice has changed since I married my first husband, I know there’s still a great deal of well-intentioned but awful advice that can help destroy your…